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Bitterness, bitterness, bitterness. This word, my goodness, it's such a charged word, isn't it?

Being accused of bitter is almost like being accused of being evil.

As someone that gets called bitter all the time, I have a lot of real estate in this conversation.

I have a lot to contribute to this discussion.

Because this word bitter, notice how it is primarily used against women. I'm not saying men don't get called bitter, but usually it's women who are being called bitter more.

Granted, though, I would say women are usually speaking up more when relationships come to an end or when they're having issues with their partner or when they are just discussing their past, I think women do more of that than men do.

Men tend to usually keep that discussion under wraps because I think that's considered

vulnerability.

But I think what's interesting about this word bitterness is when I get called bitter,

it's usually when I am discussing my standards on this podcast.

It's usually when I am shedding light on certain behaviours that women should avoid when dealing with men.

So usually when I am identifying the bad behaviours of men in our society,

I get called bitter.

The word bitter being used to describe someone like me is at best lazy.

Because again, the design and the intention behind using that word is to shift the onus onto the woman,

shift the blame onto the woman, shift the direction of the shame onto the woman who is speaking

about her experience because calling someone bitter essentially implies that they haven't moved on.

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