I am Yamla your host for this journey. I was a hopeless love a

hollic but just could not get my love to work. Then after a series of heartbreaks and deep heartache, I finally got clear about

what love is and what it is not. I want to share some of what I've learned about lover holism.

Welcome to the R spot, a production of Shandaland audio in partnership with

I Heart Radio. Welcome, welcome welcome. This is the Our spot and I am Yamla, your guide, your facilitator, some might even say your teacher, as we delve in guide your

teacher as we delve into the sea, the ocean of relationships, all kinds of

relationships, doing our best to learn the skills, the

tools, the principles, the practices to make those relationships more

peaceful, more fulfilling, healthy. Yeah, we want to go for healthy relationships.

Now, if you were with us last week, we started talking about a topic that you see

sense feel believe your partner is cheating but you don't have the

evidence and we covered a lot of ground but we're going to continue that

conversation today but I want us to start right here.

Because we are so conditioned and program taught, educated

to look outside of ourselves for the answers so that when we get the

answer on the inside we don't believe it we don't want to hold on to it and we'll talk ourselves out of what we know.

You know the first GPS, the first GPS any human ever had before it was in cars, before it was on a smartphone, the first

GPS we ever had was intuition, teaching from within.

And yet there's no place in our society and our educational system even in our

interactions of being raised or being educated. Have we been taught how to tune into, how to hear, and how to trust our

intuition? So now you grow up without the necessary skills, tools, and information to grow in your intuition, and

your intuition is telling you, Boo-Boo is cheating.

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