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Here are

your host Dr. Cori Ellen and Shannon Effridge. Well, welcome back to another episode of sexy marriage radio

where Shannon and I are regularly having honest straightforward conversations

about what goes on behind closed doors a lot in marriage.

Or what should be.

Well, yeah, what we hope could be going on and it's funny because I had a friend just say hey I

listen to one of your shows yesterday and she was all I didn't realize you guys

talked about what you really talk about on the show.

If it's called Sexy Marriage Radio Radio Radio Radio Radio.

Yeah, we do, but I have to start the show with this because I just came across some research, Shannon,

that said, what if a vibrant sex life is actually

damaging to your marriage? And so it's research that was saying that it could be if you have less sex you have a better marriage

because it actually enhances the other parts of your relationship and are you buying it or no?

The whole thing of sublimate your sexual energies and spend that time and energy doing something else, like painting pictures together or something?

Well, no, I think what the research was proposing is the idea that if you're not

focusing is so much on the bedroom you actually are forced then to enhance the other

areas. But I can only speak from personal experience.

During the seasons when there wasn't as much action going on, we get cross with each other. Yeah. We get crabby. We we nitpick.

Whereas when there's a lot of passion going on we can overlook anything outside the bedroom.

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