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Here's your host Dr. Cor Corey Ellen and Shannon Effridge.

Okay, so I have a nice little story to start our show today, Shannon.

Yeah, do tell.

They just came to mind.

You know, so Pam and I've been married 21 years

and through the course of our life together, you know, there's lots of things that's just like,

we'll have things that happen between us and it's like, hey, baby, 21 years, because you're like,

oh, that's just not sexy. That's just, you know, that's just living life together and you kind of realize, well, but you kind of realize that, yeah, okay, as, you know, as we talked about with Doug, Rosenell on that, you know, gravity takes over and things don't work like they should all the

time you know and it's just life it's you're the baby of the group I get that it's kind of

hard to muster up sympathy for you. I'm not I'm not no I'm not doing this for sympathy. I'm doing this to set the stage of so we have tried to figure out ways to still communicate through life and kind of you know accept what's going on

it's just yeah that's just life right now bay that's we're not 20 anymore you know and

and so things change and but it's it just gets better you know it just gets deeper and it gets stronger and and so as we're talking one of the things that has come up as one of our phrases is, okay, I'd like to know your intention here.

You know, what's your intention with this?

And that's then obviously led to conversations about sex or sex.

Because that's what I've started using just kind of as a light-hearted.

So we're at lunch one day. I went over and took her to lunch during work and as of course the conversation unfolded I just looked at her and said,

hey, babe, I'm just going to go ahead and announce my intention right now for tonight. And she's, oh, my cards on the table.

Okay, well now I know duly noted, you know, I'll keep that in mind and we'll send it to upper

management and we'll see what they say. So as the day goes on, you know, she comes home and as she's walking in, she had pulled her back at work,

moving something around in her new office. yeah and it's like are you okay you know and so we're just kind of doing doing dinner and then I had plans to mow and do some things before the night came you know the sun went away and she's doing

some dishes and I'm getting ready to go out and mow and and I stop and I said hey are you

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