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Here's your host Dr. Corre Ellen and Shannon Effridge.

Okay Shannon, I'm going to put you on the spot a little bit as we start to show today.

Okay.

I know you well enough that that really doesn't ruffle your feathers or make you nervous.

So...

I have a hard time getting my feathers ruffles.

Not to say joke about feathers sometimes. I have a hard time getting my feathers. Right.

So here's my question for you because this is just a scenario that plays out in my life with my wife.

We have times where kind of set the stage for sex is going to be happening that night

You know or at least

Getting an interest level in it and then you know I'll get hey, how about a little fooling around the night?

You know, it's something that's said throughout the day and she's, oh, okay, that sounds great.

And then we get in bed and I'm sitting there reading or something because I'm in bed faster than she is and

then she climbs into bed and just kind of looks at me and just waits and waits and waits and waits.

Let me guess.

Wait.

Both of you want to be pursued.

There you go.

I mean so...

So are we abnormal or does that happen in your world? Yeah I said that backwards. Yeah. I definitely think that everyone wants to be the pursueee

being the pursuer takes energy and strategy and forethought and you do risk rejection

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