Let's talk about sex.

talk about sex. You were listening to sexy marriage radio with Dr. Corey Allen where straight talk is happening

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So last week, Shannon Etheridge joined the show and we got into we dove into the world of fantasy life and the role fantasy actually plays of what if fantasies, specifically our sexual fantasies, are the brain's way

of trying to heal from some trauma and some past kind of things because fantasy really

does serve a purpose.

So after the takeaway from that last show, I have spent some time thinking through it and

it's like, okay, I could see the scenario happening of a listener listens to this show, they all of a sudden become a little more

open to their fantasy life and they're willing to kind of go there.

And so they bring their spouse on board and let's say this spouse does not listen to

sexy marriage radio so they have no clue what's going on and all of a

sudden now they are scared out of their mind because all of a sudden my

spouse is exploring all these fantasies and oh man they are

messed up what do I do so I'm like all right Shannon you're coming back on the show

because we got to talk more about what does the other spouse do when

they're scared of the openness and the interest or you know the floodgates have now sprung forth and and I want to just run you know so

And it's easy to wonder who is this person who did I'm married or who do they think I am?

I have been married to you for 15 years.

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