Let's have a conversation about male insecurities. Sorry, fellas, I think you might want to just keep scrolling and go to a different video.

But guys, I want you to understand the signs that this person is insecure.

I always try to like condense things, but this is going to be a little bit of a long list.

So let's get into it. We're going to make this short and sweet and get to the point. Number one, avoid vulnerability. Avoiding any kind of sharing of your feelings, how you're

thinking, those deep kind of conversations. Any avoidance of that is stemming from insecurity,

but it could be also stemming from a person who is not comfortable with vulnerability because of a lot of things.

Their upbringing, their wounds, again, insecurity, because you have to be very confident as adult to be able to be vulnerable and share what you're thinking and how you feel with another person.

Number two, competition.

Now, competition is

something that doesn't 100% stem from insecurity, but if you see a consistent pattern with

someone wanting to be better, this level of competition really does come from insecurity.

It comes from not feeling as though I'm good enough, then I need to always keep having more

or doing more and being better because that will prove to you and possibly even to myself

that I matter and then I'm worthy and then I'm a good person.

This of course can put a huge strain on all relationships that you have with this type of

a person, but it can also really

damage your relationship eventually the person will be in competition with you

that's not what you want you don't want to have a friend or be with someone that

you can't be yourself around because you always feel like you have to want up

them or they have to want up you and it's not just an easy flowing relationship

kind of tying into this I don't necessarily want to do you know number three for this one but just tying into

that perfectionism the excessive need for competition that is stemming from

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