Signs of Domestic Violence
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 17 February 2023
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
00:00 Introduction to A Case of the Sunday Scaries
00:55 Does Dr. Kirk work with perpetrators?
06:49 Abuse signs?
20:08 Why do abusers isolate the victim?
25:27 Gaslighting?
32:20 Why manipulative?
35:48 Verbal abuse vs normal argument
38:44 Can perpetrators change?
48:11 Discussing triggers in a new relationship
52:04 How to trust yourself
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February 17, 2023
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, deserving listeners. I was recently on a podcast in which they asked me a lot of questions |
| 0:04.8 | about domestic violence and intimate partner violence, and I thought I would just share that with |
| 0:09.0 | you here. The podcast that I was on is called Case of the Sunday Scaries. I believe what the |
| 0:15.8 | podcast is about is true crime, and Case of the Sunday Scaries, I think, refers to the experience |
| 0:22.5 | that a lot of people might be able to relate to in which you wake up Sunday morning having gone on |
| 0:27.3 | a date Saturday night, and you're thinking about the date and you're thinking, was that person |
| 0:31.9 | abusive or that person scared me, or I don't know, I don't know exactly. I should have asked |
| 0:36.0 | them what the title of the podcast was referring to, but I think it's something like that. The podcast |
| 0:42.5 | is hosted by Elise Delbaum and Annie Hodstein. Some of you might know Elise Delbaum from the Bachelor |
| 0:49.9 | or the Bachelorette. I'm not sure which one. So she has a podcast called Case of the Sunday Scaries, |
| 0:55.4 | and let's get to it. Welcome back to Case of the Sunday Scaries. I'm Elise, and I'm Annie. |
| 1:00.4 | And today you might recognize our guest from his popular psychology and Seattle podcast in YouTube, |
| 1:05.5 | but the incredible man that is the face of those channels is Dr. Kurt Honda, a psychotherapist. |
| 1:10.9 | I pronounced that correctly. Yep. I did a lot of checking on that one and Professor. Thank you |
| 1:16.0 | so much for joining us today. Thanks for having me. You and I got to speak a few years back on another |
| 1:20.8 | podcast, and I'm just so happy to have you on Case of the Sunday Scaries today to discuss |
| 1:25.5 | something that is unfortunately so close to my heart. Domestic violence obviously is a topic. |
| 1:30.8 | I wish we didn't have to discuss, but it's so present in our cases covering true crime, but also |
| 1:36.9 | in our society. And so I'm just grateful to have you here to answer some of our listeners' questions. |
| 1:42.4 | Dr. Honda Elise recently introduced me to your YouTube channel. I'm already a fan, |
| 1:46.9 | so it's great to meet you. I heard in one of your episodes that you used to work with perpetrators |
| 1:51.7 | of domestic abuse. Is that still an area that you work in? I loosely do in that the clients that I |
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