Sibling order may affect sexuality and identity
Short Wave
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🗓️ 10 March 2026
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
Scientific research on sexuality has a dark history, with long-lasting harmful effects on queer communities. Much of the early research has also been debunked over time. But not this "fraternal birth order effect." The fact that a person's likelihood of being gay increases with each older brother has been found all over the world – from Turkey to North America, Brazil, the Netherlands and beyond. Today, Selena gets into all the details: What this effect is, how it's been studied and what it can (and can't) explain about sexuality.
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| 0:24.4 | Years ago, I can't remember exactly when, I became aware that gay people are often the youngest kids in their families. |
| 0:32.6 | As a gay person, who's the youngest in my family, there was something kind of appealing about this idea, like there was a statistical order to things, and I fit neatly into that order. When I started |
| 0:43.2 | reporting on the science behind the idea, the whole thing turned out to be much more interesting |
| 0:48.4 | than I originally imagined, also stranger and darker. That darkness comes in part from how scientists first started researching what makes people queer in the first place, |
| 1:00.0 | near the middle of the last century. |
| 1:03.0 | There's a sudden visibility of underground queer culture. |
| 1:10.9 | And then the concern is that there yeah, there's something pathological happening with these people. |
| 1:16.3 | That is writer Justin Torres. |
| 1:18.9 | He's thought a lot about the way scientists have studied sexuality. |
| 1:22.9 | Last year, he won the National Book Award for a novel titled Blackouts. |
| 1:27.6 | My novel is kind of interested in these kind of pre-Kinsey sexology studies, |
| 1:33.6 | specifically this one called Sex Variants. |
| 1:36.9 | You know, it was really informed by eugenics, |
| 1:38.6 | and they were looking for the cause of homosexuality in the body |
| 1:43.0 | in order to treat it or cureate or get rid of it. |
| 1:46.8 | The queer people scientists were studying were also living in a world where this facet of their identity was dangerous. |
| 1:53.3 | It was criminal. It was career destroying, life destroying. |
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