Show Up, Speak Up- Podcast #371

Zen Parenting Radio

Todd and Cathy Adams

Education, Philosophy, Parenting, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Society & Culture

4.8 • 636 Ratings

🗓️ 25 April 2017

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

Cathy and Todd discuss why it’s important to speak up in a relationship instead of “kick the can down the road”. They discuss why intimacy is created when a couple is willing to communicate about what matters, and how both sexes have been conditioned to not share their true feelings. They talk about internalized misogyny, why our beliefs and actions are not always congruent, and share a clip from Gone Girl about the myth of the “cool girl”. Todd shares some “quick takes”, they play a movie game, and they sing songs by Pat Benatar and Run DMC.

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0:00.0	Sweetie, don't tell me what to put on the beginning of the show.
0:02.9	Well, I've been noticing that you've been putting things on the beginning of the show where I'm talking and I don't know I'm being taped.
0:08.5	No.
0:09.1	I would never do that.
0:09.9	Yes, you would.
0:15.5	Do, do, do, do, do, do, do.
0:17.1	Here we go.
0:17.9	My name's Todd.
0:18.4	This is Kathy.
0:19.3	Welcome back to Zend Parenting Radio.
0:20.9	This is podcast number 371.
0:24.5	And what is Zend Parenting Radio?
0:26.0	It's a podcast where you'll feel outstanding.
0:28.8	And who doesn't want to feel outstanding?
0:30.7	And I always remember our motto, which is that the best predictor of a child's well-being
0:34.4	is a parent's self-understanding.
0:37.2	On today's show,
0:39.4	what's the dillio, sweetie? The dillio is we're going to talk about why you need to be you
0:45.2	to create an us. That sounds complicated. No, not at all, not at all. It's about not playing small,
0:53.1	people. I've been having a lot of run-ins with the whole playing small thing. So this is from, and I want you to share your perspective.
1:02.4	Oh, I'll share it. Don't you worry. I know. From the masculine perspective. But or I'll say, actually, we all have masculine and feminine. We have to be so careful with our words,
1:12.1	don't we, all the time? But it is important, especially on a show that's talking about self-awareness,
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