Get it's at it.

People get crazy over death.

That's for sure.

I mean, it really can bring the best out in you.

Well, not if you're the one that's dying.

No.

It's not really going to bring anything out in you.

No, that opportunity is probably gone.

But the people...

But the people around you, I mean it could bring out the best or it can bring out the worst man,

people fighting over this, fighting over that.

So I can understand why if you're like filling out a

wheel, how you don't want to like fill anybody in on what's going on.

And I'm wondering if that's irresponsible. So my husband and I have put together our wheels obviously. We have kids. It's not like we have a ton of assets, but we have kids and we want them taking care of.

They're pretty important asset. The most important thing in my life.

And of course when we are choosing, God forbid, should we both demise at the same time,

where the kids are going, of course we've talked to that person and said

would you be willing to do this in this event and they were like absolutely of

course yes my question is do we fill the rest of the family in on who gets the kids if we both pass away because I'm

afraid it's going to hurt feelings.

I'm afraid people won't understand.

They'll be upset and then because our families live on opposite ends of the country, then I'm going to have to deal with the headache of visitation or you know like of

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