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Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

Should You Leave or Stay In Your Relationship?

Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

Lisa A. Romano

Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Mental Health, Education

4.8806 Ratings

🗓️ 27 February 2023

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Are you in a relationship causing you to question whether you should stay or leave? It can be challenging to trust our decision-making process when our hearts are involved, which is why some clear-cut guidelines can help you confidently make life decisions. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach, helps you get clear about what types of relationships are worth saving or not. 

Ready to find your authentic self, and create mental clarity in your life? Check out Lisa's courses here, to learn more. Her work is offering others a chance to gain the emotional freedom they have always deserved.

https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp 

 

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast.

0:06.0

My name is Lisa A. Romano.

0:08.0

I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse.

0:16.0

I am a believer in the power of an organized mind.

0:20.0

My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness rather

0:25.8

than living a reactive life.

0:28.3

May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope as you

0:33.5

spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast.

0:37.6

So this can be sort of a slippery slope when we are in a relationship with someone

0:43.6

that we are discovering that we just can't stand. Or we are discovering that there are

0:48.9

just things about this person that are growing more and more irritable and they are becoming more and more difficult to

0:56.7

ignore. So then the question is, well, I'm in a relationship and I'm not supposed to focus on

1:02.0

changing someone. I'm supposed to focus on changing myself. Where is the line? I found myself

1:08.4

struggling with this in my first marriage when there were things about my ex that I just found that they increasingly annoyed me more over time and it got to a point where it was I just couldn't handle it anymore.

1:22.6

One of those things was passive aggressiveness and in therapy my ex was told by whoever it was that he was seeking therapy from that, it was totally fine to be passive aggressive. And I thought, okay, well, if he's going to be passive aggressive and I don't like it, what do I do with that? Am I supposed to just live with someone who is passive aggressive and a lot of

1:45.4

other personality traits come along with someone who is passive aggressive. And I found myself

1:50.8

stuck, you know, not knowing what to do in this situation and growing more and more unhappy.

1:56.6

For me, I discovered that I couldn't get close to this person. I couldn't grow in the relationship with this person.

2:03.9

It always felt like there was a chipping away of any possibility or potential for the relationship

2:10.0

to grow.

2:11.0

And in my situation, it seemed like my partner was okay with that.

2:15.1

That status quo or that stagnation was something that he was

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