Should You Expect A Valentine’s Day Date After A Month Of Dating?

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Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 14.5K Ratings

🗓️ 12 February 2020

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

J & J begin the show with a conversation about Valentine’s Day and what to do when you don’t have a date. They debate whether or not you should expect a Valentine’s date with someone you’ve been hooking up with for a month. Then a listener writes in to ask why the guy she has been seeing for weeks still hasn’t kissed her. Is this a sign that he’s not interested or that he just can’t pull the trigger? The Awkward Sexual Encounter of the week features a guy who accidentally sexted an entire group chat. Then, an emailer sends in a deal reveal involving a guy who keeps trying to suggest a group-date scenario after only one drink together. Another listener asks whether or not she should be okay with her longterm boyfriend going on a solo-vacation to South America. Is it a sign that they’re not in the same place in the relationship and should break up? Finally, they play a round of Valentine’s Day-themed Red Flag or Deal Breaker. Thank you to our sponsors: Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy bedding, visit Buffy.co and enter promo code UUP Ship: Finding a date is more fun when you do it with friends - go to betches.co/ship to start finding matches today! Shop Betches: Get 15% off the U Up? collection at Shop Betches by going to shop.betches.com/collections/U-UP and use promo code UUP Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:33.2	Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jorana Abraham. And I am Jared Fried so
0:39.4	good to be back here with you, Jordana. So great to be back. I feel like, you know, every year we do
0:44.6	Valentine's Day episode. This is it. This is it. This is the Valentine's Day episode. Yeah.
0:51.1	Get out your, get out your wine. Get out your tissues. Let's all have a nice cry together.
0:58.4	Get out your bitter angry rants. Get them out. It's time to go. It's a fake holiday.
1:04.2	It's a, I, you know, Valentine's Day to me. It's a nice time. It's an excuse for a nice meal
1:14.3	if you're in a relationship. That's how I look at it. Like you're a man, right? I don't, I'm not a
1:21.5	fan of the bit of the Valentine's Day bitterness, but I understand it because it seems like it's,
1:26.9	it's like if you're not seeing anyone, it seems like something that is set up to make women feel bad
1:32.3	about themselves a little bit. Yeah, I hear that. You know what I mean? It's like the one day that
1:37.2	like relationship, like stuff and love stuff is really like, like, it makes you very, you're very,
1:43.9	very aware of your singleness, especially if you don't want to be on that day. You are forced to
1:48.7	look at the mirror of your own single, right? Your friends are all, if you see people getting flowers
1:53.9	in your office, it just kind of like hurts a little bit. It's like if there was like a, it's
1:58.3	except if there was like a national like people who were employed day, right? Yeah, and you
2:03.0	can't get a job, right? I can't go out tonight. I'm going to employ day, right? I have plans with
2:10.0	my boss. Ooh, I'm sorry. Like, yeah, it is. We're going to talk about how much money we make,
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