This is the virtue. So we've been talking about sort of a dating concept, which is matching

energy. Yes. We kind of spontaneously been talking about it over the last couple of weeks,

where we have found it effective when we're doing our texting tutor, when we help a

virtue listener text somebody else, mostly a guy texting a girl on a date or vice versa,

that you want to match their energy in their text exchange.

I don't know why we never thought about this before, but as I was his responses, we're

coming in very just kind of me. And I'm like, we need to match his energy. Like we just,

we don't need to come to like to under or to over. We just need to match it. And I don't

know why we've never done that before. It's a really smart strategy in looking back at

it because those first couple of months are dating us. Even when people say, I don't

want to play games, oh, I hate games. You got to play a little bit of games, right?

So one is wondering, and the other one is wondering, also, am I showing too much? Am I not showing

enough? So somebody's got to make that first move. And when they do match their energy,

which is what this email is all about right here. Also, she says, should she give him her

energy or not? Because he's like kind of lukewarm right now. If you want to get in on this

one eight five five, birchho. Hey, birchho help finding myself in need of your sage unbiased

advice. We have never given out either one of them. You must be talking about another

morning. I matched with the guy from another state on Tinder and we hit it off right away.

Bantra was great. We shared a lot of hobbies and common. We just got along really well.

Kristen, we can almost say that they had a connection.

Oh my god. Look at that.

That's a kind of job. Fast forward. And we agreed. I'd come visit them. Obviously, this

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