the virtue. All right, so what is going on in your life that you want to get some advice

from Bercho fam all around the country. It doesn't even matter what it's about. You

can hit us up at the Bercho.com. And in this case here, she's wondering if she should

help her friends serve divorce papers or just stay out of the whole mess.

Good morning, Cassie, Kristen, Moe, Burton, Abby. I'm currently going through a dilemma

with some beloved friends of mine. Let's call them Chandler and Monica. I am best friends

with Chandler. He and I bonded in high school and I have traveled across the world to visit

him while he was training in the Navy in Japan. He is a top tier friend whom I am always

honest with and have always helped out. He was married at the young age of 22. When he first

introduced me to Monica, I instantly fell in love with her. You know how when you meet

someone for the first time, you can see the warmth exuding from their entire being almost

like what I imagine it would look like if Mother Teresa were to come down from heaven

and caress my cheek. She's the type of person where if you mention you like something,

not only will she get it for you, but she'll get you options. For example, I told her how much

I liked her eyeshadow. I saw her the following month and not only did she get me the eyeshadow,

but she got me a couple more styled similarly. I mean, who frickin does that? They wore my it

couple, the couple that complemented each other and who I aspired to be like in my relationship.

But then I got a call from Chandler. Do you think having kids is important?

Apparently they had never had the conversation of kids before. It was understood that they both

wanted kids, but didn't think 22 was the right age to have one. Eight years later, we're all

turning 30 and suddenly it's an absolute no on the kids front from Monica. Chandler and I spoke

for the next couple weeks as I helped him sift through his thoughts of whether he thought kids

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