Get it the bird show. So in a second we'll get into just how blunt you can be with a friend her friend's been making some changes to herself

And our listener is wondering if she should step in because things aren't looking right to most people in the

office and their friend group we'll get into that in a second.

Quick update Cassie on the stress and controversy of your daughter's big homework presentation.

So I was so annoyed. I have a four-year-old daughter who's not even in real school yet.

It's like pre-pre-school, it's really a daycare, but they do some pre-preschool learning, which I love,

and they are starting to give our homework, which I'm not a fan of, but it's helpful, like tracing letters,

stuff we do with her anyway.

And then they assigned a presentation to her which gives me bad

flashbacks because I sucked at these in school I'm talking like the three

trifold like science fair style posters.

Uh-huh.

She had to get up in front, like decorating, get up in front of the class and say something

about the person.

And she's howl?

Four!

She just turned four, like three months ago.

So I'm like, oh, this is your assignment.

This is not her assignment, right?

Well, I looked at it, and then I realized I was too invested,

and this is a four-year-old, so I'm like,

cool, I'm really gonna let her have her creativity with this I will guide

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