the virtue. So imagine yourself engaged, but you know in your hearts of hearts that you

are in love with another man. Do you completely call off the wedding to be with the guy

she considers her soulmates or do you just play it safe? If you got something going

on in your life, you want to share that drama with the virtue. We're going to try to

get you some advice. Hit us up at the burt show dot com. Kristen has the email.

Hi, Bert Show team. I listen to you guys religiously all the way from South Africa

every day. I'm a huge fan that needs help. I know it's so cool. Kristen's always blown

away every time. Always blown away that people can listen in all parts of the world.

And I was always like, yeah, of course they can technology, but now that you said South

Africa, I'm like, the world wide web. There's like a seven hour time difference.

All right, my fiance and I have been together for five years. He's two years older than

me. And we've been engaged for just more than a year now. This year, the wedding planning

is starting, which means paying deposits for venues, food, wedding dresses and paying

a wedding planner. We have saved up for this two years ago. I met my soulmate. He honestly

is my person. We get each other on all levels emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically,

and even though he's 17 years, my senior. I feel as if I've known him forever. My soul

fills that home around him. We bond over trauma. We had his kids. He knows exactly when

I'm thinking and I can feel when something is bothering him before he's even speaking

or before seeing him. The only problem was that he was married. It's so weird because

he knew me from a few years prior to me knowing him and suddenly our paths crossed again.

We started this affair and we tried walking away. There was just this magnetic force always

bringing us together. My fiance found out and we broke things off. I broke things off

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