Should I Cut My Parents Out of My Life?
Apostolic Life in the 21st Century
David K. Bernard
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🗓️ 16 February 2026
⏱️ 10 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Dr. Bernard, a friend recently shared with me a article that has a very provocative title. |
| 0:12.7 | The article was titled, One Quarter of Young Americans Cut Off Their Parents and Call It Boundaries. |
| 0:19.5 | The article notes I'm quoting directly from it. It says the most |
| 0:21.9 | recent data shows that 38% of American families report at least one family member estranged from the |
| 0:28.6 | rest. About one in four adult kids has reportedly gone no contact with a parent. The person who |
| 0:35.7 | shared this article with me, their brother is a pastor, and this |
| 0:38.7 | pastor is also a trained counselor, does a lot of counseling, and he noted that this trend |
| 0:44.1 | seems to be affecting apostolic families as well as secular families. So I'm bringing this up because |
| 0:51.6 | I'd like to know, does the Bible support this practice of cutting |
| 0:57.0 | ties with your Christian parents? We're talking specifically about Christian families here. |
| 1:01.6 | Would there be any scriptural support for this practice? And I think I would like to note, |
| 1:06.0 | just for the sake of the audience, that I'm not asking for a friend. I have a good relationship |
| 1:09.5 | with my family and plan on seeing them actually before the |
| 1:12.1 | week is out. |
| 1:12.6 | So all is good with my parents and mom and dad, I'm not planning on cutting you off. |
| 1:18.8 | All right. |
| 1:19.3 | Well, let's start with the baseline first. |
| 1:22.7 | The baseline, one of the Ten Commandments is to honor your father and mother. |
| 1:26.5 | And that is immoral in nature. |
| 1:28.9 | It's still in force for Christians. Jesus himself reiterated that. When the rich young ruler |
| 1:35.3 | came to him in Mark 10s asking, what should I do to be saved, he quoted a number of the Ten commandments. |
| 1:41.0 | One of those is honor your father and mother. Also in Mark |
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