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So I have a question regarding my marriage.

So legally, I've been married for 13 years, but it's been on and off for a while there.

But lately, recently, within the last three years, I have been living

a silent divorce with my husband as far as being emotionally, physically, financially,

detached from my marriage. So I have a roommate now.

Tell me about that choice. Why have you chosen that world?

Because there's no more connection there.

I know, but like, it's kind of a thing in popular culture to say, like, our relationship

or in its course, I just reject that.

People at the end of the day, they stop, or one person just gets off the train and the other person can't

keep going but have you all sat down and had this conversation or have y'all just have you

all just slowly let this thing go out to pasture like right tell me that's basically how it happened

okay we did not sit down for it and um i've particularly asked for divorce, but he said he's not finding anything.

So we just live like this.

The issue around all of this is this is what I'm just wondering if it's even healthy to do this part here.

I know it's not healthy for me, but from what I've been looking for spiritually is what they've been telling me and what I've been, you know,

throughout my research is that it's better for the kids to be at home and see both parents,

even though we're living in the situation, versus being separated in different homes that

would be more harmful for them.

That is, that doesn't even pass, that doesn't even pass your smell test.

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