So you have yourself a friends with benefits and she's coming into town and all of a sudden

you're catching feelings for somebody else, but there's other girls already made the

commitment to come in town.

So what do you do?

Yeah, well, that's the question we have from one of my close guy friends from college.

So back in the day, he started hooking up with this girl and she has just been in his

life for way too long, I think.

But they've got, they like have a friendship, you know, like when you've been intimate

with that person for so long, like they're just almost like co-workers is the wrong thing,

but they're almost like, she's, they're, they're not exclusive.

She's just kind of been in and out of his life and it's complicating a dating relationship

that manifested itself in the last couple of weeks.

So she just kind of like flits in and flits out at her leisure and he's always there to

welcome her with open arms.

Exactly.

And an open bed apparently.

So he has this work formal party in a couple of weeks and he actually already invited this

long term friends with benefits because you know, sometimes we'll step in for wedding dates,

it's really like holiday almost.

And so she paid for the flight, she's going to stay with him and the problem is, a couple

weeks ago, he actually met another girl at a bar and they've really hit it off.

And he's like, I really think this could go somewhere.

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