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The Girl Defined Show

Should a Woman Take Her Husband’s Last Name?

The Girl Defined Show

Bethany Beal and Kristen Clark

Girl Defined, Christian Teen, Girldefined, Christian Advice, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Christian Dating, Womanhood, Society & Culture, Christian Woman, Christian Girl

4.22.2K Ratings

🗓️ 26 June 2023

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Ep. 133 - While the Bible does not give a direct command on this subject, it does have a lot to say about marriage. Marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman forever before God. It is a picture of Christ and the church. A husband and wife become one flesh.

Does that mean a woman should take on the man's last name though?

Let's take a deep dive and figure this out together.

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0:00.0

Today on The Girl Define Show, we are talking about whether a woman should take on her husband's

0:04.8

last name or not. And I recently heard a conversation on a podcast between a Christian couple,

0:10.6

like an influencer couple, and they were talking about this. And the wife was saying, like,

0:14.0

she hasn't officially taken on her husband's last name. And part of the reason was because she

0:17.8

likes her her maiden name better. She's like, I think it's a little bit cooler. I like the way it

0:21.2

sounds. Maybe to her husband, you should take on my last name. So right now, they just have two

0:25.6

different last names. And they were just like discussing it and basically left it up to like,

0:29.3

hey, I think it's just after preference, whatever the couple wants, like, you know, no big deal,

0:33.2

like do what works for you. And I'm wondering, like, is there a deeper perspective? Is there

0:37.2

something we as Christians should be thinking about when it comes to marriage and when it comes

0:41.1

to this idea of taking on the husband's last name? Let's find out in today's episode.

0:48.5

Hey, sisterhood. It's Kristen here and Bethany and we're sisters and the founders of Girl Define.

0:52.8

And we're so pumped you're joining us for this conversation. And honestly, every episode

0:56.8

because here at Girl Define, you know, we are passionate about discovering God's design

1:01.4

for our lives as women, looking in his timeless word and understanding how he wants us to live

1:06.7

as modern women. We know his word is timeless. It's true. He has answers for our beauty,

1:11.0

identity, worth value, purpose, everything that has to do with womanhood. God's word has answers.

1:15.9

And so that's what we dig into here at Girl Define. And today's conversation is an interesting one

1:20.1

because this is something that I don't know like it is becoming really popular for people to do a

1:24.7

wide variety of things when it comes to their last name. But I'm kind of curious, as we kick

1:28.5

this off, when you got married today, were you ever thinking, I know you obviously did take his

1:33.5

last name, but was there ever a question of like, should I? Yeah. So it was interesting. A lot of

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