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Adult Child

Shitshow Saturday #189 - The Many Faces of Dysfunction

Adult Child

Andrea Ashley

Relationships, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 31 January 2026

⏱️ 76 minutes

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0:00.0

Welcome back to shit show Saturday, shit so Saturday folks.

0:17.9

I got something a little different for you today.

0:20.3

I got something a little fun for you today. I got something a little fun

0:21.3

for you today. So this was inspired my my conversation with T.N. Dayton from this past week's

0:26.3

regular episode where I asked her the question of like, does she see growing up in an alcoholic

0:32.3

or addicted family being different than other forms of complex trauma that we endure and just asking about

0:40.2

this, the similarities and the differences that we have, depending upon the breed of dysfunction

0:47.7

that we may have experienced. So I decided to take a dive into the adult child vault and go through the first 100 shit show Saturday episodes.

0:59.4

And I've picked six individuals, each one showing a different face of family dysfunction that can lead to becoming an adult child.

1:11.3

This can look so many different ways from subtle to overt.

1:16.8

And yeah, I just thought it might be interesting today for us to explore that.

1:21.3

So you know, you'll get some emotional neglect and invalidation.

1:25.1

I got a little, I got a little religious abuse for you.

1:28.6

Trigger warning got some, some sexual trauma. We have some chaos and alcoholism.

1:36.2

So we got something for everyone, folks. We got something for everyone. So without further ado,

1:42.0

let's just go on and do the damn thing.

1:45.1

My mother was born after the Second World War.

1:49.8

My grandmother was born after the First World War.

1:52.7

So she lived through the Second World War.

1:54.8

I've heard stories of my grandmother being caught in the woods while they're hiding from the military.

2:03.6

I forget if there was a Russian or the German army, but they caught her in the woods and

2:10.6

she had just given birth to one of her kids. She gave birth to six kids, but only three of them.

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