Shige Oishi on How to Live a Psychologically Rich Life | EP 571
Passion Struck with John R. Miles
John R. Miles
4.7 • 779 Ratings
🗓️ 11 February 2025
⏱️ 61 minutes
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Summary
- 1. The Three Dimensions of a Good Life
- 2. How Novelty and Exploration Lead to Fulfillment
- 3. The Global Village Paradox and Social Media's Impact
- 4. Happiness vs. Meaning vs. Psychological Richness
- 5. Why Regret Comes from Inaction
- 6. The Role of Negative Emotions in a Rich Life
- 7. How to Cultivate Psychological Richness
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In the next episode of Passion Struck, John sits down with Katherine Morgan Schaffler, a renowned psychotherapist and author of The Perfectionist Guide to Losing Control, a Path to Peace and Power. Katherine challenges the conventional view of perfectionism, suggesting that it can be harnessed as a personal superpower rather than a flaw. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that could transform your relationship with perfectionism.For more information on advertisers and promo codes, visit Passion Struck Deals.Join the Passion Struck Community! Sign up for the Live Intentionally newsletter, where I share exclusive content, actionable advice, and insights to help you ignite your purpose and live your most intentional life. Get access to practical exercises, inspiring stories, and tools designed to help you grow.  Learn more and sign up here.Speaking Engagements & Workshops Are you looking to inspire your team, organization, or audience to take intentional action in their lives and careers? I’m available for keynote speaking, workshops, and leadership training on topics such as intentional living, resilience, leadership, and personal growth. Let’s work together to create transformational change. Learn more at johnrmiles.com/speaking.Episode Starter Packs With over 500 episodes, it can be overwhelming to know where to start. We’ve curated Episode Starter Packs based on key themes like leadership, mental health, and personal growth, making it easier for you to dive into the topics you care about. Check them out at passionstruck.com/starterpacks.Catch More of Passion Struck:
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| 0:00.0 | Coming up next on PassionStruck. |
| 0:02.0 | There's nothing wrong with the Williams James equation. |
| 0:05.0 | I mean, it's really brilliant. |
| 0:06.0 | But two ways to maximize the self-esteem. |
| 0:09.0 | One is maximize your success, then your self-esteem is higher. |
| 0:15.0 | But the other approach is reduce your desires. |
| 0:19.0 | If you want a lot, then the success has to be enormous in order to get |
| 0:24.5 | equation, like a high outcome. But by reducing ambitions, even your success is a little. If the |
| 0:33.5 | desire is small, then you could feel good about yourself. |
| 0:37.4 | Welcome to PassionStruck. Hi, I'm your host, John R. Miles, and on the show, we decipher the |
| 0:42.6 | secrets, tips, and guidance of the world's most inspiring people and turned their wisdom |
| 0:48.0 | into practical advice for you and those around you. Our mission is to help you unlock the power of intentionality so that you can |
| 0:56.7 | become the best version of yourself. If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer |
| 1:02.1 | listener questions on Fridays. We have long-form interviews the rest of the week with guests |
| 1:07.3 | ranging from astronauts to authors, CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists, military |
| 1:14.0 | leaders, visionaries, and athletes. Now, let's go out there and become Passionstruck. |
| 1:20.1 | Hey, Passionstruck, fam. Welcome to episode 571. I am thrilled to have you as part of this |
| 1:26.1 | incredible community. Whether you're a long-time |
| 1:28.4 | listener or joining us for the first time, you've become part of a global movement dedicated |
| 1:33.4 | to igniting purpose and living boldly. I couldn't be happier to have you here. So today, I want |
| 1:38.8 | to ask you a profound question. What if the key to a truly fulfilling life isn't just about |
| 1:43.9 | happiness or meaning, but something much deeper? |
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