She Wants THIS Kind of Man

Amen Podcast

Alex Wilson

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

5 • 2.1K Ratings

🗓️ 18 May 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Are you tired of playing the dating game and losing? In this episode, Alex and Lilinoe break down Song of Solomon 1:1-4 to reveal what actually attracts godly women. Spoiler: It's not your bank account or gym gains.

Discover why having "fragrant character" matters more than cologne, when to pursue vs. when to chill, and why your community's opinion of your relationship actually matters. Plus, learn the biblical balance between using your head AND your heart in dating.

Perfect for Christian guys navigating modern dating, engagement, or early marriage. Stop guessing what she wants - God already laid out the blueprint.

🎯 Key Takeaways:

* The character traits that make you "marriage material"

* Who should pursue who (the answer might surprise you)

* Why virgins loved Solomon (and it's not what you think)

* How to know if your relationship is God-approved

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0:00.0	What's going on everybody? Alex and Lockelaani here. Thank you for joining us. We are starting
0:04.6	Song of Solomon today. Excited. Very excited. So like I said, in the last episode, we're taking a break
0:10.4	from Matthew, taking a break from Corinthians, and we'll continue Matthew after Song of Solomon.
0:15.0	We'll continue Corinthians after Song of Solomon. A big reason why we're doing this is because we also
0:20.3	pastor a church at our
0:21.8	house. I mean, not we. I'm the head pastor of it, but Loculani obviously is in leadership there and
0:30.2	my wife and helps me with it. But we noticed that there's a lot of young people there. A lot of
0:35.9	them want to get married. A lot of them are about to get married.
0:38.1	And we know that you guys are anywhere between 18 to 35, most of you at least.
0:44.7	And so what does that mean?
0:45.9	That means that you're in a season similar where you're just newly married or you're
0:50.0	about to get married or you've been married a couple years.
0:52.9	And Song of Solomon is all about
0:54.6	love. It's all about our relationship with God, relationship with Jesus as his bride. He
0:59.6	our groom. But it's also a lot about dating and marriage and love and intimacy and things that
1:05.6	humans very much struggle with. And so we're going to get into it. Song of Solomon is also called
1:10.6	Song of Songs,
1:12.1	which means the best of songs. So by calling it the song of all songs, it's meaning this is the
1:21.3	best song ever written. And it's because of what it's about and what it's focusing on. So let's
1:27.2	get into it. Song of Solomon chapter's about and what it's focusing on. So let's get into it.
1:27.7	Song of Solomon chapter one versus one through four.
1:31.1	The title of today's message is The Man Worth Running With.
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