The virtue early virtue listener. She is leaning on you. She wants some advice here on how to keep her wedding

This is what she says from becoming an MMA fight between her birth dead and her stepdad man.

Yeah, my attention. He's divorced his man. I mean, when they're going on

I mean everybody wants to stay together, but you don't realize like the obstacles that last

Not only one year, two year, five years, ten years down the road. Yeah, I mean, especially when you have kids

Yeah, okay, so they say

Till they're 18. No, that's obvious that there's going to be, you know, potentially weddings,

potentially grandkids like this is a this is a forever kind of thing

So how do you make sure the birth dead and the stepdad are both feeling good on the wedding day?

That's really what she's looking for here. One eight five five virtue. Kristen's got the email.

Hey, Bert Show. This is about a wedding and after listening to you guys for the last ten years

You would think I would have learned to just a lope that is accurate because that's what Bert says all the time whenever we have

Reading drama. I'm starting to feel it. I'm starting to feel it as a baby's planning is on wedding. Yeah, I'm starting to feel it.

You're not even taking your own damn advice. I haven't even started the planning yet. I'm still feeling it

But that isn't the case my fiance and I just got engaged and we are so excited

We aren't really in a rush to start planning yet and instead are just enjoying being engaged

One thing that keeps stressing me out however is what to do about my dad situation

My dad and I aren't too close

But we aren't distant either we talk on the phone every couple of weeks and visit about once a year

He lives on the west coast. We live on the east coast. I also have a stepdad

For all intents and purposes my stepdad is my dad

My stepdad and my mom have been married since I was five years old

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