Get it the bird show. She thinks her husband is heading into the pre-cheating phase

Pre-cheating phase. I have never heard this before. I have neither but it makes some sense to me, right?

I can see how back I have been and she sees it starting to develop and he might not see it

So she's wondering am I just being crazy here or not?

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I consider my marriage to be strong as far as I know he's never cheated on me and I've never cheated on him

However, I do believe in having guardrails for your marriage to make sure there is never any temptations or opportunities

To put yourself in inappropriate situations

Sidebar I believe it was Andy Stanley who talked about guardrails, right? Yep

All right, I also think that the people in the marriage will always care more about protecting it than anyone on the outside

Which makes sense. So we have to be cautious of other people of the opposite sex

Well, we have a neighbor who's recently divorced ever since her husband left my husband felt this

Chivalrous obligation to help her with things that would typically be done by a man

It started when he noticed her yard was getting overgrown. So he started mowing her lawn when he did hours

Well now she's become used to it and text him several times a week for help with things around the house

What was that?

For example

Just the last week he helped hang at dining room curtains

He moved some heavy heavy objects in her shed fixed a problem with her cable

Carried in a carload of groceries and made sure her trash cans were by the road on trash day

Some of it he does voluntarily

But a lot of it is at her request

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