This is the virtue. They knew each other back in high school. He has slid into our DMs.

So asking her out on a date, but she doesn't look like she did in high school. And she's

wondering if she needs to reach out to him and say something about it. So if you got something

going on, you want us to debate it and throw it out to virtue. Fam, hit us up at the

virtue.com. Who's got the email? I do. And before we start, good news, Mo, you don't have

anything on your face because when I made my screen bigger, it all of a sudden ended

up on Cassie's face. So then I realized there was a dot on my computer screen that was

just moving around to everybody's face. All right. I appreciate you. So everybody's

in the clear. You don't have crap on your face. All right. Dear Bert Show, I've been a listener

for years and am a huge fan. I love you guys. So I need some advice. I not so recently

got out of a long term relationship and feel like I'm ready to start testing the dating

waters again out of nowhere. I got a DM from someone I went to high school with just wanting

to catch up. We've been talking nonstop and really vibing. He asked me to get together

in person, but I am super all caps nervous. When he knew me in high school, I was young,

blonde and skinny. Now I am far from that. The truth is, I've gained a lot of weight.

I've been trying so hard to lose it, but since having kids, I've really struggled with

it. There's no way that he knows that I look so different because I don't post pictures

of my entire body on social media, just my face. I am worried that when he sees me, he

will be disappointed and might be awkward. Maybe I should warn him, but I also feel it

will be an awkward conversation. I'm not sure what to do honestly. I'm thinking about

ghosting, but what if I'm wrong and miss out on something that could have been great

because I'm too scared? Any advice is welcome. I know this is a sensitive topic, but I

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