The bird show now she's reconsidering he's like hey you want to get married and she's like now I'm good

I and now she's thinking maybe I made a bad decision should I cut it what? Yeah

No, I'm good. No, it doesn't really sound like it's for me

So now she's reconsidering and wants to say yes, so how do you even do that?

I've always got the email their bird show. I'm looking for advice and hoping there is a guy in your audience who can help me predict what my boyfriend might feel

We've been together for two years over Christmas

Yeah, thank God he did it with just us and not in front of anyone else

Because I said no

It's not because I don't love him. I honestly just wasn't prepared

I had no idea he was even thinking marriage yet. I know two years is plenty of time for many couples

However, my head just wasn't there

We both just started grad school and anything marriage was on either of our radars

We really hadn't even talked about it in any real sense

Any conversation we had about it seemed like a hypothetical possibility in the very distant future

So when he asked a panic and just said no

He was obviously upset and hurt kind of took some space from each other for about a week

Then we decided breaking up wasn't the answer

I have noticed things just to not the same with us anymore

I'm certain it's because he feels rejected

Also realized I made a huge mistake by turning him down after spending the last month really thinking

Definitely to think I definitely think I am ready to do

I I am ready and do want to marry him

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