The Fertia.

Man, I've had money come up and divide family before.

It is...

When you're talking about borrowing money from a family member,

I think the same the same theory applies

that borrowing equals you just have to assume you're not going to get that money

back you know what I'm saying? 100%.

You ever done that with family?

If I give money, I was taught that lesson very early in life.

If you are going to give money to family, then you should not expect it back and it's on you, but I think money is probably the number one cause of why I've seen relationships I were in my family

Abby if you're a borrowed money from your family from my family. Yeah, because I'm assuming they haven't come to you.

Then oh no, well actually you'd be surprised they're like for my Islands for two weeks. I'm struggling to pay rent Carrie but now I get money

from them every now and then. I was financially illiterate when I was younger and

I accrued a significant amount of credit card debt and I went to dad and the bank of dad which

has a phenomenal interest rate of zero.

He loaned me the money so I could pay off the credit card, but I paid every single dime back.

Okay, good. All right, so this is a complicated email we got about lending money, helping family

members out, then needing it. Dear Bircow, I'm a 28 year old female and doing well financially

all on my own. I'm a big girl. Ten years ago, when I was 18, my father and mother kicked

me out of the house and refused to help me financially.

I won't get into the ends and out being kicked out, but I was only 18 and still needed financial

help for my parents, fair enough.

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