She Only Wants to Be Serviced in Bed (Is That Fair?)

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Dr. Emily and producer Erica judge whether you're the asshole when sex drives don't match, and the verdicts might surprise you. A woman daydreams about affairs while her older husband's libido fades—but is desire actually the problem? A man's wife refuses both sex and therapy because he doesn't earn enough—discover why money complaints are never really about money. Someone only wants to receive pleasure, never give it—where's the line between preference and selfishness? Then the hardest question: what do you do when you've tried everything for a decade and still have sex twice a year with someone who recoils at your touch but swears you're their person? Dr. Emily delivers tough love about the "everything but sex" trap, why refusing therapy while refusing intimacy is relationship sabotage, and the brutal truth about waiting for people to change. She breaks down the progression from frustration to resentment to contempt, and issues a wake-up call about the information you're ignoring right now in your own relationship. If you're walking on eggshells, wondering if your needs are unreasonable, or waiting for things to magically improve, this tells you what you need to hear. Timestamps:

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1:11.4	go get one today. Do something now. Don't wait 22 years. Don't wait another 10 years. People don't change unless they want to change. So a lot of times we sit in a relationship thinking, oh, maybe they're going to come around. Maybe they're going to. No, they don't come around. People just become more set in their ways the older they get. This could be a wake-up call for many.
1:16.7	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
1:21.0	I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
1:21.9	Today, producer Erica and I are tackling your submissions about mismatched libido's sexless
1:27.1	marriages and the question
1:28.7	nobody wants to ask, when does wanting sex make you selfish?
1:33.9	We're hearing from a woman whose sex life is dwindling as her older husband ages, someone
1:38.6	whose wife withholds sex because he doesn't make enough money and refuses all therapy,
1:43.2	a self-described pillow princess who only wants to receive, and a man in a 10-year dead bedroom
1:49.1	who's tried everything and still only has sex twice a year.
1:52.7	These scenarios are tough, but they are also incredibly common.
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