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We could be reading your letter live on the air, just like we're going to read this one right here, right now. Let's go. Buckle up, hold on tight. We got it for you. Here it is, the strawberry letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject, she needs to get her kids. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a 50-year-old with three children, and I've been married for 14 years.

All of the children are grown and are on their own.

So my husband and I have the house to ourselves.

I love my alone time with my husband, but his sister is causing some big problems in our marriage.

His sister gets on my last nerve. She is an unstable mother, and she

drops her kids off at my house with no warning. I am tired of dealing with her kids. One day recently,

I was walking into my living room, and I saw her letting her kids out of the car, and she drove

off. My husband was at work, so I ended up keeping the kids, which meant feeding them.

I called my mother-in-law and told her to come get the kids.

My mother-in-law is sick of the kids, too.

There have been many times when she has asked me to keep the kids for a few hours,

them will return at 3 a.m. to pick them up.

She just sits in the driveway and blows her horn or shines her light on bright through my front windows.

She also has my husband doing crazy stuff, like changing her locks at night because she broke up with a boyfriend and didn't want him to be able to get into her

house. Stephen Shirley, she is 38 years old and the family keeps enabling her. I am not going to

keep this up and I told my husband that enough is enough. I am at war with my husband over her

because it's his only sister. I hope and pray I'm not being unreasonable

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