The virtue.

All right, Kristen.

So I thought this advice was for a listener.

This advice is for you or somebody you know.

No, neither, really.

All right.

So what it is is my husband's family was in town recently and they were visiting and it

was his brother and his sister-in-law and then his niece and his nephew and they all came

in the town and his sister-in-law is just, she is, she's a godsend.

She's a saint.

I'll go ahead and give her a shout out right now, Lisa.

She has taken over the duties as a primary caretaker of Bart's mother, okay?

And so she's down at the farm multiple times a week.

She handles a lot of like the paper, like the scheduling of doctor's appointments and the

paperwork for insurance.

She's just very hands on for Bart's mom and dad and for my mother and long father and

long.

So I wanted to treat her and to thank her for all the, she does it selflessly.

Like she just, she does it because she's just a good person but I wanted to like treat

her.

So I took her to go get a massage at a very nice hotel and this was actually the gift

you gave me for my birthday.

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