The Bird Show.

As a product of somebody that came from a really bad divorce and quite honestly,

so bad that, I mean, it's left emotional scars that I've been trying to like fix my entire life.

When Abby sent this, this audio about divorce and co-parenting. And I'm so proud of myself and Stacey for how we're

co-parenting and for my girlfriend and her ex-husband also. This is such like at the core of our

lives that when I saw this, I'm like, oh my God, I can't believe she's giving out this advice.

I think it's really, really damaging on a bunch of different levels. Well, you saw that as a product of divorce and having

gone through divorce yourself. I'm nosy. And so I saw it. I was like, oh my God, like I would

have never thought to have done this as a kid. It's dangerous, man. I hope people don't take this

advice. So Sasha Casey shared her experience about something

she decided to do once she turned 18 to learn more about details she had never heard from her parents

divorce when i turned 18 years old and i went off to college one of the first things i ever did

was request the records of my parents' very messy divorce

and the custody records of me. Because I know when people divorce, things can get messy.

Emotions can cloud your judgment and how you remember things. So I requested the records,

and I implore every child of a messy divorce to do the same. Request the records,

read them. It may feel like an invasion of privacy, but it affects you too, especially if you're

from one of those divorces where you have to pick a side, really. And I didn't really have to pick

aside when I was a little kid, but now it's come apparent that I kind of have to

pick a side. And I've always been on my mother's. My mother raised me. She's the reason I can literally

walk. I owe that woman in my life. But when I was 18, I requested the records, because I know that

when you have a messy divorce, sometimes emotions can cloud your judgment how you remember things.

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