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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

She Keeps Triggering Me with Brooke and Wiley

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Talk Radio, Default

4.8808 Ratings

🗓️ 25 February 2025

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

On this episode of Couples Therapy I talk with Brooke and Wiley, who are struggling with his over-reactive triggers to simple questions. Wiley is tired of her questions, but Brooke feels like she can't ask anything without it turning into a fight, and she's not sure how to deal with it. We turn the tables on Wiley and help him identify why this might be the case, and how to begin identifying the root cause of his triggers. It's a powerful conversation of learning to go back and heal the past, in order to heal the present. If you get triggered by the same thing again and again, this conversation is one you don't want to miss.  You can also watch the full episode on YouTube. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: $15.00 - A Couple's Guide to Building Emotional Intimacy Through Weekly Conversations. The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She's written seven books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, RESET, and Soul Care. She's also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Project management and relationship management don't always work the same way.

0:10.0

Because I see how, you know, you're looking for a formula where he's looking for an emotional connection.

0:17.0

Man, if that doesn't explain us exactly. I want one plus one and he's like way more abstract than i

0:26.8

he's like just tell me that you think i am worthy just tell me that you think i'm capable

0:33.9

just tell me that you think I have what it takes.

0:44.2

Are you ready to talk to me? My name is Deborah Felata and I'm a licensed professional

0:49.5

counselor, national speaker, and author. Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping

0:56.2

millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of

1:02.6

this podcast is to have on-air, authentic counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people

1:09.7

are really doing and give my guests and callers

1:13.0

an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor. Each of these episodes is meant

1:19.0

to show you that we are all on the journey of healing, mentally, emotionally, spiritually

1:24.9

and relationally, together. None of us are immune to the challenges and

1:31.0

struggles of life, but we don't have to walk this path alone. I'm so proud and honored to be having

1:38.2

these conversations with men and women who are courageously paving the way for open and honest

1:43.9

conversations about their

1:45.6

personal journey of healing. So if you're ready, let's talk. For the next few weeks,

1:52.6

we're shifting gears a little bit. We're having couples therapy. I've invited a few couples to

1:59.0

come into my studio office and have a live on-air session about what's

2:03.8

going on behind the scenes. We're pulling back the curtains in marriage, and we're inviting you in

2:09.9

for a sneak peek of what other couples are going through. These conversations are brave,

2:16.6

they're raw, real, and unedited, because we want you to know that

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