Get it the virtue we get a little heavy during our bonus content this week Katie our producer really kind of offended her brother on a podcast

So she's having split and mixed feelings about it. So we kind of a counselor for about 15 20 minutes on exactly how to handle family

If you've been in the same situation maybe with a strange family before you might connect to it

virtue calm slash bonus B. S.

I'm really curious before we even get into this email is there anybody listening right now that we could put on the voice

Disguiser that has feelings for a friend's current, but you are just bottling them up and you're not doing anything about it

Because you know that's the right thing to do, but you're definitely feeling it like you're attracted to your best friends

Man or woman 1 855 birchow because we gave advice to her last week's anline

You might have all those feelings and your parts might be all tingly, but that's your best friend. We're talking about her man

I know and that's what she I mean she referred to her as her best friend and her email

She's been single for several years had a really nasty breakup

Had a hard time getting over X however there is one man that has just been running rampant in her mind

her best friends boyfriend

She gets these

Massive feelings for him she has caught the fields for her best friends boyfriend and she's actually distanced herself from her best friend

And the hopes of trying to like squash it and her friend is even called her out for being distant and she doesn't know or she didn't know

She was asking us if she should confide into her best friend like listen the reason why I've distanced myself is because

I have romantic feelings for your boyfriend. I'm attracted to him you guys like don't do that you ever been in this situation before

No, keep yourself out of that. Yeah, I mean I've found you can appreciate like a friend date somebody and he's like oh he's hot

But never like oh he's hot and I want to bone him. Mm-hmm. It's not even a thought for me like so as I'm introduced to a friends

Significant other it only have to be a friend just someone I know like that's that's not even in my mind, right?

Well, I've always got the email update

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