the virtue. Alright, so her cousin wasn't living up to the responsibilities are being

a made of honor here. We go again with the wedding problems. Well, I feel like the whole

made of honor thing too, like the lackluster made of honors been like a run and theme

here for the past couple months. Well, this is the wedding season, right? June. Yeah.

Yeah. No, it is. So she got demoted to bridesmaid and now she wants your guys help.

If you're listening on how to figure this whole mess out, one eight five five virtue.

Hey, Borsho. I've been contemplating asking for advice for at least a month now. I'm not prone

to asking for help. I don't have a lot of strong familial connections. I barely know my sibling

and my parents are definitely not even on speaking terms. I'm looking for unbiased opinions.

My fiancee and I are in our early 20s. I've talked to my fiance and as many friends or family

as I can and they all seem to tell me to just go with what I think is best. Problem is I'm torn.

Here's the backstory and issue at hand. When I first got engaged, I asked my female cousin

who happens to be the same age as me to be my maid of honor. I figured being how we have been

really close on my life that she would be a good fit. However, within the last couple years,

things have seemingly gone downhill. Our relationship went from her catching multiple buses to surprise

me and spend Christmas with me to not even allowing me one hour or less on Christmas day. After I

drove an hour and a half one way just to give her a present. She made the excuse that her boyfriend's

mom needed her within the time frame I'd be there. When I asked her the next day, she told me they

didn't do anything until after I left. I was a little upset, but I let it go. Then onto the actual

planning of my wedding. When that finally was underway, I got nothing from her. No text, no calls,

no plans arranged to help me plan. You know what maid of honors usually do. However, my best friend

was doing all of that, making appointments, showing me different designs, asking me tons of questions,

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