I met the girl that I thought I was going to marry, but as time went on, she ended up sleeping with another guy in the same night, and she ended up giving me general herpes for life.

And she was saying that the reason she chees on me or whatever is because I wasn't there for her.

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All right, it's got on the street to Nashville right here in town and talk to Jared.

Hey Jared, what's up, dude? Hey, how's going, Dr. John? I'm good, man. What are you up to? Oh, you know, just working. Very cool. Trying to get through all the troubles. How can I help, man? So I've got a huge, it's a huge backstory.

I'm going to try and keep it as concise as possible and line it up to the original question as much as possible here.

I don't know really how to make concise, but I'm going to try, so bear with me.

So basically, I met the girl that I thought I was going to marry about four years ago and it

started off you know amazing and um it was it was a rough time in her life and I just wanted to be a friend

but you know things escalated very quickly yada yada yada

and clearly she she wasn't ready for the relationship and I had told her I was like you know

I think we should hold off on this a little bit and take some time but as time went on she I didn't

commit to her in like the first two months because I'd never had a girlfriend before and I was scared and I didn't commit to her in like the first two months because I'd never

had a girlfriend before and I was scared and I didn't want to bring any pain or anything onto her

because of how damage she was already. And then what happened was she ended up sleeping with another

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