She Canceled 2 Dates On Me, But Keeps Contacting Me. What Should I Do?
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 24 February 2025
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.7 | newsletter is going to be she canceled two dates on me but keeps contact to me. What should |
| 0:12.3 | I do? Well this particular emails from a guy he says he's made, I guess he started hanging out |
| 0:19.8 | with a female co-worker his that he used to work with |
| 0:23.8 | but she always had a boyfriend he said they kind of stayed in touch on Skype over the years |
| 0:28.7 | and then at some point recently she told him that she was single after breaking up with her |
| 0:34.2 | boyfriend that she was with for four or five years. |
| 0:38.7 | So they had a first date and you can tell this guy's not really super familiar with the book |
| 0:45.0 | and the seduction process. He encountered a little bit of resistance and then he went into |
| 0:50.5 | White Knight, Mr. Respectful Mode, and then just, he took a delay as an outright |
| 0:57.4 | denial, so he stopped moving forward trying to seduce her. |
| 1:01.1 | And then he says he made a few mistakes, and then the next two dates he set up with her, |
| 1:06.4 | she canceled both of them. |
| 1:08.9 | So now she keeps reaching out every couple of days, sending them |
| 1:12.4 | and texting them and stuff like that. But now he's like, well, she canceled two dates. |
| 1:18.9 | What the hell do I do? And so as I talk about it in 3% man, if you're going to get involved |
| 1:23.6 | with a woman who just had a breakup, You have to understand, especially somebody who's |
| 1:28.8 | been with a guy for five years. She's emotionally bonded to that guy, and it's going to take |
| 1:33.5 | her time to heal and get over it, typically six to 12 months at least. And so you should expect |
| 1:40.8 | a lot of hot and cold behavior, and then you've got to take into consideration at 75% of the time the women are the ones doing the breaking up and the dumping. So there's a 75% |
| 1:50.7 | chance. This guy got dumped, didn't see it coming, doesn't agree with being dumped and is trying |
| 1:56.0 | to get back in there. And the fact that they got five years together and this guy basically had one date |
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