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Sharing The Mental Load in Parenthood and Marriage|362

Dad Tired

Jerrad Lopes

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

5 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 31 July 2023

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Jerrad and Layla have an honest conversation about spiritual growth, emotional maturity, and what it looks like to share the mental load in marriage. Layla opens up about her journey from spiritual complacency to discipline, and how one small decision changed everything. They also dive into parenting, baptism, moving across the country, and how to lead your family with humility and purpose.


What You’ll Hear:

  • What it looks like to move from spiritual apathy to daily discipline
  • Why abiding in Christ—not behavior modification—produces lasting fruit
  • A real-life example of how small daily decisions impact the whole family
  • Understanding the invisible “mental load” and how to share it well in marriage
  • Why your kids may not be ready for baptism (and how to talk about it with grace)
  • How to know when it’s time for a new chapter in life or a new church
  • Why spiritual leadership starts with quiet obedience, not platform influence

Tune in to reflect on how abiding in Christ transforms your home, your marriage, and your legacy.
Episode Resources:

  1. The Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com (Use code PODCAST for $100 off)
  2. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  3. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Disciplines of a Godly Woman by Barbara Hughes – https://amzn.to/3WZ9Utp
  5. Chris Kins on Worry – Scroll back to the “Worry” episode on the Dad Tired Podcast
  6. Join the Free Dad Tired Community – https://www.dadtired.com/community

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey guys, welcome back to the Dad Tired podcast. It's good to be with you if you're brand new to the Dad Tired

0:04.8

podcast. Welcome. We're a ministry. We're not just a podcast, but we are focused on. We are committed to

0:10.2

helping men lead their family well. And we have the podcast. We sit down every week. We don't take

0:15.3

ourselves very seriously, but we do take our role as the spiritual leader of our home pretty seriously. And we take Jesus

0:21.7

seriously. And so we sit down every week and we just talk about what does it look like for us as

0:25.3

men to try to lead our families well, to fall more in love with Jesus and help our families do

0:29.3

the same. We also have a community of thousands of guys from all over the world who are serious

0:34.9

about this stuff. So again, we have a podcast, but even more than that,

0:39.1

we have a community of guys who are really serious about this stuff, trying to encourage each other

0:42.8

to push each other to be the men that God's called us to be. These guys are from all over the

0:46.8

world, all walks of life, but one thing in common, and that is to be the men God's called us to be. So we'd love to have you be part of that. It's totally free.

0:54.6

You can go to dazhire.com and click the community tab

0:57.2

and jump over into that community.

1:00.1

Again, that's totally free

1:01.0

and just get connected with other like-minded men

1:04.1

who will push you to be the man God's called you to be.

1:06.9

Today, I have Layla back with me.

1:09.9

Hey.

1:10.9

It's good to have you back.

1:13.2

Every time I travel around the country and go speak and I'm like, if I'm at a parenting

1:17.6

conference or at a marriage conference, I will usually have a wife come up to me and say,

1:21.7

hey, I sneak into the podcast and I really enjoy it.

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