The virtue. Abby, we need an update of your friend who was dating a guy. She actually

um had a ditch or date question in regards to the fact that whenever he went out, he didn't

want her to um go with him because he was afraid that she would meet his parents.

So last week I brought this conversation to the table about her this new guy that she's

been dating who was being a little shady. So he's like obsessed with this family and at

least like once a month ish his family will come into town. And the last time they were

in their city, he was kind of going out of his way to make sure that he that she wasn't

at the same places that he was. And she was really put off by that because she's catching

feelings. They've been dating for about I think we're coming up on like the three month

mark. So it's gotten to the point where it's two it's been going on too long for this

to be like a he just wants to keep his family away from her. It seems like he's specifically

avoiding the situation probably because of her. So she actually she she manned up a little

bit and she decided to have a conversation with him about the situation and just kind of

like the direction of their relationship in general. Oh, she did. Yes. I was so proud

of her because I'm very confrontational, but like she's one of those friends that if

I bring something to the forefront, she wants to avoid it. Yeah. And so I had kept pressing

her in like you're not going to get answers unless you communicate about it. Like you

can call me all day long and complain about the situation. But until you talk to him,

like you're just going to be miserable. So if you want to stop being miserable, you should

go talk to him. So that's what happened. I was very proud of her. Even though I've now

almost lost another girl in the squad. And so she goes to him and she starts kind of

talking about some of these concerns from their relationship about how she feels like

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