The Bertio. There's always the first sign in a sucks. It really sucks where you've just

started this relationship and you're really excited about it. Things are going well.

And then you get like the first red flag and you're like, is this not what I thought it

was? I think that's what Shady or not is. So if you have something going on in your

relationship and things are going great, but there's one thing you're like, is this

right? Because you want to talk yourself into the relationship. Then you hit us up at

Bertio.com and we throw it out and we're like, Hey, yeah, this seems pretty shady to me.

In this case, you got a couple that's been dating for five months and they've been keeping

it a secret from everybody. Now she's ready to tell him and he's not and she's like,

how long am I supposed to wait on this thing? So is it shady or not? Most got the email.

My boyfriend and I have been together for five months. Before we started dating, we were

really good friends. We met when we worked together. While working at the same place, we

became a part of a group of friends. Most of us have all left that job and work other

places now. However, we are still good friends and hang out quite frequently. About five

months ago, Ryan and I started hanging out just the two of us. It had been obvious for

a while that we were attracted to each other. When we first started hanging out, we both

agreed to keep our relationship quiet from the others. We didn't want it to be awkward

or put any unnecessary pressure on us. We didn't want the others to gossip or involve

themselves. We also were not sure where things were headed and figured if it didn't work

out, it would be easier and less drama for the people we're not involved.

Well now it's been five months. I'm tired of hiding it. I want to tell our friends and

start being able to act like a couple around them. He says no. He doesn't want to yet.

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