There's no perfect people in this room, you know, and that's that's the kind of people that Jesus comes after

Right and come for the people who have it all together but people who need them and whether that's because we're the ones hiding sin or

We're the ones who have been hurt by sin

Everybody needs his grace and I'm just trusting that people who are listening today that everybody is going to become aware of the fact that

That Jesus can help them no matter where they are whether they're the ones who are hiding sin or the ones who have been sinned against that Jesus is their help and hope

Welcome to Family Life today where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Ann Wilson

And I'm Dave Wilson and you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com or on our Family Life app

This is Family Life today

So I would say hiding a secret in marriage or even in your life is probably the biggest agony that we carry

Are you confessing something right now?

Well, I don't have a secret but you know that I carry the secret in our marriage for quite a while

That's interesting you say that too

You didn't know I was going to go there, did you?

Here we go, boom

But I knew something was going on when you were holding on to that secret and I kept pressing into you like what's going on?

Like I can tell something's wrong

And I hated that you knew because I had this struggle with pornography that I was carrying out by myself

And you could feel it, you could feel it in our home

I could tell that we weren't one, we were separate in some way and I couldn't figure out why

And one of the best days of my life was the day I told you the struggle

Oh, it was the worst day of mine

Yeah, but we started a journey

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