Jesus was very patient with sexual sinners. He was very tender with them. But he

was hard against religious hypocrites. And you've got to pick, are you going to be

a broken humble sinner who needs him, or are you going to be a religious

hypocrite?

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So I can remember often men in our church would set up an appointment to

come see me. Constantly. Yeah, I mean, you know, you're a pastor and you talk about

different things and you hit a cord with somebody. So they'll come in. Wait, so

when they would come in, did you think, Oh, I know what this is about? Well,

often they would sort of stumble around because I could tell they're afraid to

really talk about why they're, you know, you're talking or laughing, but I'm

I can sense them getting nervous. And usually, and I'm not kidding, it felt like eight

out of 10 guys had a porn struggle. That they, and because I had from the

pulpit said, I have struggled with that they felt comfortable. Like, well, if he

struggled with it, I can go in and talk to him about it. But they were a little

afraid to bring it up. So they bring it up. And I'll never forget this one time

Bruce, one of the drummers in our band. And I played bass. So I knew Bruce really

well, he sets up this appointment. And I'm like, why would Bruce want to me? I mean,

we talk all the time. We're in the band together, right? And he comes in.

He's him, Han around. And I finally go, okay, Bruce, I know why you're here.

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