Hey, deserving listeners. We have a very special guest on this show to talk about sexuality. Why don't you introduce yourself, Victoria?

Hi guys. My name is Victoria and I am really excited to start this discussion and explore a lot of different topics. Nothing's off limits.

Where can people find you online if they want to find you?

Well, you know, I am actually a bit of an enigma online right now.

What I do is work with people privately. I don't take on a lot of clients and I don't promote it widely online, interestingly enough, because I work more with people, like, person to person.

In a virtual sense, I've been camping online for a while and so people are able to find me there.

And that name is slutty panties, which is quite a name. But again, I'm not active on there right now, but that is where I fed through most of my clients and met them.

Great. Well, what would you like to share with the audience that you think they might benefit from learning about?

Well, the majority of people that I've been speaking with and been dealing with have a lot of shame when it comes to sexuality.

I find that most people are going through this whole inner turmoil all on their own and they think that nobody else out there has anything similar going on or likes anything that they might like.

And I find that a lot of the couple breakdowns that happen are results of people having these secrets that they really can't share with anybody else.

And what I try and impart is that you don't need to be scared. You can just talk about things openly.

There are uncomfortable moments that's going to be part of being an adult and being in a really open sexual relationship.

But in coming with those uncomfortable parts is a really freeing ability to be open with a partner.

But you have to do that from the beginning and you have to do that in a very strategic way because both people are very vulnerable at the very beginning.

And what I found is that most people put up a wall at the very beginning of a relationship.

They're not willing to be open and who would blame them? I mean, it's really, really scary sometimes to talk about the kinks that you're into or this thing that you've looked up before.

But you've, I don't know, you know, you don't want anybody to know that.

So when is the right time to bring that up? And when is, you know, when is that okay? Well, those are all questions that I sort of have a formula for.

So what I try and help people with is at the very beginning of a relationship, it's not about telling everything.

It's about being honest. And so that can include saying, you know, I'm really not comfortable discussing that right now.

There is something in that box that you've asked me about, but I'm not there yet.

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