What you're about to hear is an unscripted one-time couples counseling session.

It contains mature themes and listener discretion is advised.

For the purposes of maintaining confidentiality, names and some identifiable characteristics

have been removed.

But their voices and their stories are real.

How important is sexuality in a relationship?

The interesting thing is that if sex is good, it actually accounts for a rather small

part of the couple's satisfaction.

But if sex is a problem, it accounts for a huge part of those couples dissatisfaction.

I don't know if I would call it a wall or something has built up.

I mean, everything has sort of been devoid of its excitement.

So this is the couple that comes to me saying, we love each other very much, we have no

sex.

It's clear to me how much he loves me or she loves me.

It's been years since I felt wanted, he says.

And that distinction between loving relationships that are devoid of eroticism is at the center

of this couple's pain.

And we met online on one website.

Shady, which is an Indian website.

And I was a little bit older getting married, not older, but my upper 30s versus most

Indians are married.

You got to college and you're married, right?

...