Hi, my name is John Kim, and I'm not just a therapist and coach. I'm also someone going through his own journey learning about life and love and what it means to be a human being.

And I love to create a dialogue that's unrehearsed casual over clinical because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

Okay, before we talk about sex and by we I mean me, I want to tell you about my new favorite thing to do, and that is texting you.

I've become obsessed with this, and if you haven't been getting my text, then you can, it's really simple, just text the number 55222 and keyword all caps angry and you will be automatically subscribed.

This is only for the US. I am working on the international texting thing. It's just it's so

expensive to text right so anyway um sorry I don't want to I'm not whining I I'm not complaining about it's I I want you to trust me with your number because there will never be any spam I

promise I also am going to put a lot of effort into this so I'm going to make it

like a program like every Monday I'm going to text you the week's challenge and

then you know Tuesday maybe a reminder or a mindset and

then Wednesday I'm going to text you in a video that only the people with the link that I text can watch, right?

So there'll be like an exclusive video.

Short form, maybe three minutes or so.

And then, I don't know, maybe Thursday, a relationship tip.

But I want to be in your phone and

I've been getting a lot of emails and d.ms about how helpful this has been so it gets me really

excited just another way to help people right

so that's that now let's talk about sex the first thing I want to mention or the category I want to talk about is toys and I'm speaking mostly to men because

I think that a lot of men don't bring toys into the room because they feel like if they have to bring a toy or use a toy on their partner or together, then they're less of a man.

And so it's an interesting conversation because I think a lot of women and men too are having

getting ripped off from their sexual experiences because of once

insecurity right and so I actually you know I fall into the same boat like

you know growing up I thought you know 20s and 30s like maybe early 30s I always

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