I don't know if I should stay with him when I'm like this young and I'm not gonna marry him.

Or not because he's not gonna change. I've sent him photos in lingerie and the response I get is cute.

Okay. Maybe he's not as sexual.

Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that block our sacred institutions. Betrubize. They call them in a fight on days.

You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.

Today's episode what I wish I knew in college. This is a great episode for anyone going to college but also if you know anyone who's going to college.

nephew's niece's brothers sisters neighbors a few things I cover in this episode how to make one night stands more pleasurable.

How to know if it's time to break up with your long term partner, especially if you want to have new sexual experiences.

What to do if you're asexual identity or virginity makes it harder for you to connect on campus and how to find partners who value more than just casual hookups.

I also talked to certified health coach Katrina Wright about how she ditch dating toxic partners and learn to have a healthy relationship with herself and her body.

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Well, by intention is to repair you or someone you love for college by sharing all the things you need to know that you definitely won't find out about at orientation.

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Before I get into your questions and calls, here's a few things I wish I knew in college. Oh, so many things. I mean, I think that hookup culture is definitely thriving.

Although some people think hookup culture hasn't really changed and it's always been there, but I just wanted to find what I think hookup culture is.

It's not so much everyone's having sex with everyone else, but more of a normalization of people having one night stands or hooking out with people without being in defined relationships.

So I just want to encourage all of you to pay attention to what you want and you don't have to fit into what everyone's doing.

Don't have sex to check it off the list. People are going to get drunk and have sex and that's real. But what I wish I knew in college was more about orgasms and pleasure and my body.

And I'd never masturbated before. I know a lot of you would I thought this two guys were going to like me more if I hooked up with them.

You'll find your people I promise you will. You'll college really is the perfect time to explore your sexuality and experience a lot of different things and figure out what you like.

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