This is the Authentic Sex Podcast, real-life conversations about sex, pleasure and relationships.

I'm your host, Juliet Allen.

Welcome to episode 31 of the Authentic Sex Podcast. My name is Juliet. I'm a sexologist, a sex and

relationship coach and a tantra practitioner. And yeah, I'm the host of this podcast and today I'm doing a q and a with you so every now and then

i'll do a q and a because um so many people inbox me with questions and um so every now and then

i just pick out a few now some of these things you may resonate with, some of them you won't.

But I often find that people are asking me the same questions a lot, which means that we're

all experiencing similar things in the realm of sex and relationships.

And yeah, so here we go.

I'm just going to launch straight into the question

so that I can do as many as possible for you.

All right, why can I only come on top?

Okay, so this is a woman who's inboxed me and said, I can only come on top.

Is there other positions I could, you know, possibly come with? I've tried and I haven't been

able to. What should I do? Okay, so I'm assuming that you're talking about a clitoral orgasm, and that is because a lot of

women, when they're sitting on top, whether it's on top of a man or a woman, probably more so

man, and you've got his cock inside you, and you're like grinding on top of him you're actually

grinding your clitoris and it's like rubbing on his pelvis often um i mean it depends how you're

shaped and your body weight and all those things so we're all really unique in in um what rubs

wear but in general the reason why you can only

come on top is because your clitoris is being rubbed in a way that it makes you have a clitoral

orgasm. And I guess if you want to continue having clitoral orgasms, then you don't want to always

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