Hey team, thanks for joining me today. Today I'm going to share a lecture I did. I do some

private coaching and I was coaching some female surgeons about sex and sex life. And if you think

that doctors and surgeons got taught this stuff in med school, you are sorely giving us in our

schools way more credit than we deserve because I didn't learn this in med school. I didn't

learn this in urology residency. I've learned all of this in the last couple of years when I decided to deep

dive into female sexual health and response and the brain and the psychology and how it all

works. So that's what we're going to do today. We're going to talk about sexual normative roles and

how that affects our personal sex lives. What do I mean when I talk about

crappy sex? I use analogies of sex and surgery and being mindful and, you know, doing things

routinely versus paying attention. I go into a little bit of data of why older people can have

great sex. And we talk about desire and desiring what we already have. So if those topics interest you

and more, take a listen to this lecture I gave and I hope you guys enjoy it. Follow me on

Instagram, Kelly Casperson, MD, where I tend to go live the most if you want more of me

between the weeks. All right, my guys, much love. And remember, you are not broken.

Welcome to You Are Not Broken, the only podcast that combines science, medicine, and psychology to re-educate your brain and help you live your best love life. And I'm your host,

Ford certified female urologist, Dr. Casperson.

Sex is a loaded word. Facebook hates it.

I just got my post kicked off because of typing in a three-letter word that began with

SEX.

So the cool thing about sex is we get to be in complete control of our sex life when we

decide and learn that we want to be and get to be.

I think so many women, as far as sexuality goes, take a very passive seat to it.

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