Welcome to another empowering episode of Women of Impact. Today, I am thrilled to dive into a topic that's often shrouded in silence but is foundational to our relationships and individual confidence: sexuality. Joining us is the incredible Jaiya, a renowned sexologist who has transformed the conversation around intimacy with her groundbreaking work on sexual blueprints. Together, we'll unravel the complexities of sexual compatibility, tackle the discomfort of sexless relationships, and break free from the chains of shame and embarrassment that too often confine our sexual experiences. Lisa Bilyeu, with her characteristic openness and depth, shares insights from her own marriage, highlighting the lifesaving importance of understanding and speaking your partner's erotic language. We'll explore the different types of sexual blueprints—energetic, sensual, sexual, and kinky—and discuss how to communicate them effectively, ensuring that you and your partner are truly connected in the most intimate of ways. So, prepare to be empowered and maybe even a bit enlightened, as we discuss how to transform your sexual blueprint into a source of strength and pleasure with the wise guidance of Jaiya. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Waiting for a chat, promises confidence boost. 04:46 Avoiding "bed death" through communication and intimacy. 08:44 Book "Jaya" helped me communicate sexual needs. 11:22 Effective communication is key to overcoming awkwardness. 15:28 Kindness, open heart, self-work, women's disservice. 16:42 Women often don't express their needs in bed. 21:24 Creating a romantic and sensual atmosphere matters. 26:02 Healing, learning, and expanding in relationships. 27:38 Book empowers confidence and communication in intimacy. 30:07 Thanks for being you, paving the way. Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Visit http://betterhelp.com/WOMEN today to get 10% off your first month. Post your job for free at https://linkedin.com/LISA  Sign up at https://lastbottlewines.com, use code LISA, and find out why Last Bottle is the most fun way to discover and buy amazing wine. Head over to https://cozyearth.com and use promo code LISA to save an exclusive 35% off.  Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices